Brule Hunt #5

Estonia 🇪🇪

Sun, Jan 29, 12:00 PM (UTC)

Topic: CONTROL vs. SURRENDER Welcome to our second Brule Hunt in 2023! You are probably already fully set for the most of your visions of 2023. Recommended recipe for manifesting is focus on your WHAT and WHY, and not HOW. But hmmm.. can you easily let go of control over people, circumstances and life in general? Let's go diggin' together! :) If this event vibes with you, please RSVP asap!


Coffee and Tea

About this event

As Mindvalley students and growth seekers, we have been acquainted in one way or another with the simple recipe for manifesting:

"Focus on your WHAT and WHY, and not HOW"!

It might take quite a lot of effort for us to work on our self-awareness, so that we can define our values, deal breakers, fine tune our preferences and finally get to know our true selves well enough to envision what truly speaks to us. 

And once we've finally laid out and written down our visions, we kind of know what actions step should be taken. 

It might be rather challenging to keep ourselves calibrated with our gut feeling, intuition. It may also be a tough cookie for us to stay in integrity with our deal breakers and values. 

BUT, it might be extremely easy for us to fall for illusion of control. We want to feel safe, therefore we quickly default back to what is most familiar.

At some point in our lives, some of us might have learned that in order to feel safe and to get our needs met, we need to control people, situations and life in general. When we start controlling, we shrink in awareness, and our capacity for manifesting our visions shrinks too. 

What are some other bullshit rules and beliefs that might feed our (obsession with) control? 

We might as well just do some inventory of our control and manipulation techniques that actually harm us as well as others, and restrict us from tapping into the surrendering flow of manifestation. 


I would love us to hold space with each other and exchange our stories, beliefs and needs. Let's gather and help each other hunt some Brules.

Please note that we come together to this event to share, rather than give advice and coach. Giving advice, although coming from good intentions, might divert someone from the path of growth that should be unique to them, and might have contrary effect from the initial intention of the advice giver. Therefore, please kindly give advice only if specifically asked for, or, if you want to give advice, please ask for permission and do it in a form of self reflection with "I think/I believe" statements. This will ensure that each of our boundaries are well respected.

This is where growth begins. By identifying the source of the issue. Or at least by finding some small clue that might push us toward the right direction in our (inter)personal and spiritual growth. 

Once a BRULE is brought to your awareness and you start questioning it, it slowly stops having power over you <3!


No preparation is required for this event. However, if you would like to watch some resources in advance, the link below is recommended:

Here is the video from Teal Swan titled: "When Things are Out Of Your Control"

To facilitate our discussion, please feel free to think of a few events and relevant limiting beliefs from your upbringing that might have pushed you to live life compensating your authenticity for being accepted in your family and society at large. 

If you don't have time to do it, you can just come and get into the flow of sharing. You might be surprised at the power of your inner wisdom ;)

For the purpose of having intimate and free flowing discussion, this event is for up to 7 people.
P. s.: 

If you are a newbie to Mindvalley and the concept of a BRULE isn't familiar to you, please refer to the following definition coined by Vishen Lakhiani:

"A Brule is a bullshit rule that society adopts to simplify its understanding of the world."


  • Gregor Obrez

    Local Host, Estonia



Sunday, 29 January
2:00 PM - 3:30 PM (GMT+2)

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  • Steve Allen

    Wisdom Discovery

    Community Manager, Mindvalley

  • Gregor Obrez


    Mindvalley Local Host, Tallinn

  • Alexandra Krohn

    Local Host, Tallinn

  • Laura Roman

    Local Coordinator, Tallinn

  • Silja Paulus

    Loovelu OÜ

    Local Coordinator, Tallinn

  • Katrin Vilimaa-Otsing

    Turunduskoolitus OÜ

    Mindvalley Local Host, Tallinn